Let's just talk shortly about a certain topic that is important to people, and that is why people are leaving church. Now, in the culture, people talk about specifically millennials who have left church over the last 20 years. Millennials are people that are around our age. So, between the ages of about 30 to 40, 45 years old, something like that. And a lot of people around my age have left the church. And I've spoken to many people that have given their opinions why they have left church. And I have realized there's a fundamental reason why a lot of these people have left church. Usually, it's because they have seen hypocrisy in the church, and usually that sort of hypocrisy falls into one or two categories. It's either the category of of, it's actually sin, like maybe their pastor was a hypocrite, and he was committing adultery but pretending to be a good shepherd on Sunday. So, it's actual real sin, or it's something that these millennials see as something hypocritical that's actually just due to their tainted view of reality. I'll give an example of that. I had a client some years back who talked to me, and I got to speaking to them about church and how I had left, and they said, "That's great." And I knew that even though they thought we were on the same page about leaving church, I just knew that they were on a completely different page. And as they spoke, I realized what they thought to be hypocrisy in the church was totally completely different to what Jesus's view of hypocrisy and sin is. And so, what this person thought hypocrisy was is her pastor was up there, you know, preaching against sin and things, but he was including sinners to be people that are transgender and homosexual. And her view of hypocrisy is, how can you say that you are loving and follow a God of love and be hating a whole race of people? You know, these sorts of people consider homosexuals a race, even though it's a sin. And so, they think that pastors in the churches are being racist, and they are being hypocrites because even though they say God is loving, they're hating homosexuals, and they're hating, you know, these people that have decided they're a man in a woman's body or whatever problem they have. So, a lot of millennials have this idea that churches should accept everything, and if they don't, they're hypocrites.
So, the two views that millennials kind of have of hypocrisy, one is that the pastors and the people there really are sinful. Therefore, they left church because they don't want to be around, you know, a pedophile pastor like many of these priests are. And they don't want to be around a hypocritical pastor who is, you know, fornicating with the women in his church while pretending to be a good leader on Sunday. And then there's the people that really are so twisted. They think that churches are hypocritical because they're condemning things that are really sinful. Now, I know how the people in church think. They think of church as a hospital for the sick. And so, they're going to tell you you should be in church. Sick people should be in church, and you should be in church as well because all of us are sinners. And so, they basically justify the sin and the hypocrisy and the wickedness in church as if it's okay. And God just sees us all as equal, and you should just go to church anyway and forget about it; turn a blind eye because we're all trying to go up the mountain of faith anyway. And so, these sorts of Christians, even though they see the blatant hypocrisy, they see the sinfulness, they just say, "Whatever, that's fine. I'm going to go to church anyway because it's better than if I were at the bar or something else on Wednesday night."
Guys, the reason why I left the church as a millennial, because I myself am 39 years old, so I'm a millennial, is far different than the reason why most millennials left the church. Most millennials left the church because they had some kind of spiritual revelation that the church is bad, and so they left. They think that they're holier than thou, so they started other groups. They want to justify their own sin at the end of the day. I didn't leave the church for any of these reasons. I left the church out of a direct revelation from Jesus. And it was scripture that Jesus showed me of why I should leave. He showed me the scripture that talks about how if we touch nothing unclean and separate ourselves, how he will become a father to us, and then we will become as his children. But we can't be yoked with the world. And so, when I read these verses myself being in church, I was convicted, and I knew that I had to sever myself from my religion and people that were in my church, even close members of my family, if I wanted to really hold Jesus's hand and walk with him in the truth. It wasn't that I thought I was holier than thou. It wasn't that I wanted to justify some sin in my life. It wasn't that I was upset that the pastor was pointing his finger at me for sin. I knew that I was in sin. And I knew that the church was a way that I could kind of live my sinful life and justify it because all the people around me were saying it's okay to be a sinner. It's okay we're saved by grace. And the women that were coming to church were all promiscuous. People would of course go to the movies and out to the lake and do all these things with other people in the church that were fun at the time, but also it caused a lot of people to fall into sexual sin and all sorts of other sin as well, drinking and all of those sorts of things.
So, I knew that if I wanted to walk forward in faith with Jesus, I had to leave church because if I didn't, I would still be in a dead religion; I would still be part of the Babylon church system that was leading my soul to hell. It wasn't that I just had some personal revelation that didn't align with the Bible. It wasn't that I just wanted to justify my own sins and not have people point fingers at me. But it was Jesus showing me truthfully that I had to leave the church system. Not just my church at First Baptist, but I needed to leave these organizations that called themselves the body of Christ, sever myself from it, disconnect myself and my family from it, that I could cleave and hold on to Jesus with all of my might and let him become my new teacher, my complete leader, and that he could mold me and shape me to his image.
This is not the reason that most millennials are leaving church, guys. They're leaving church because they're upset that the church is speaking against homosexuality, and they have a brother, they have a brother or a sister that is gay or transgender, they're queer, they're something, and they're very upset at the pastor or their church's laws for speaking against those things. And at the end of the day, they don't want to go to church because they don't want anyone pointing a finger at them that they're a sinner. And so, they can say, "Everyone else is a hypocrite." But they're just trying to get the fingers pointing away from them. But that's not the reason I left. And that is not the reason you should leave church either.
The reason that you should leave church is if you are genuinely choosing to be led by Jesus. If you don't want to be led by Jesus, then by all means, go to church, sign yourself up for their classes to be led by their shepherds and their teachers and their leaders. And by default, if you join a church, you go where your leadership is going. You follow your church where your church is going. But by default also, if you put yourself in the care of Jesus, then you will be going where Jesus is going. So, you have to ask yourself a very fundamental question, and that is, where do you want to go? Do you want to go where Jesus is going, or do you want to go where your church is going? Because you can't choose both. Either you will be a lover of people, and you will follow people and their leadership and their direction and their prophets and their pastors and their Bible studies, or you will follow Jesus and his teachings, and you will be guided by his Holy Spirit.
The church has replaced the guidance of the Holy Spirit for their Holy Bible. So, they kind of have this trinity that is God the father, God the son, and God the Holy Bible, and they have completely eliminated the spirit of life, they've eliminated the holy ghost. But if you want to receive the one true God, Jehovah God, that is the Father, the Son, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost, his spirit that he gives to those that will receive him, the better gift, then you need to sever yourself from dead religion, server yourself from hypocrisy and the thinking of other millennials and the deception that's in the church. Server yourself from all of that. Get rid of it. Kick those spirits out of your life, and then choose to hold Jesus's hand and walk forward with him by faith, even though the road is lonely, even though no one else may go with you. Likely, other people will scorn you, they will look down on you,they will say you think you're holier than us, you're a hypocrite, they will try to speak every evil of you under and over the sun, just like they did to Jesus. Remember, they called Jesus all these names. They said that he was casting out demons by the prince of demons, that he must be filled with bible, and that Jesus was just this evil hypocritical guy that thought highly of himself. So, if they treated the son of God like that, we are not greater than the master. They will also treat us like that. If they loved Jesus, then they will love us. If they hated Jesus and despised him, they will also despise us.
And I have found in my years of walking with Jesus apart from dead religion, the people who despise genuine faith most are the dead religious Christian crowd. Those that are always going to church, they always think that they know best, they're always combative, they always want to throw scriptures at you thinking that they're more biblical than you, they're always fighting against the Spirit of God. They're never reverent before Jesus, but they always want to give you a verse and prove to you how you're out of alignment because the Lord speaks to you, and they say, "Well, God doesn't speak anymore through dreams or visions or interpretations. He only speaks through my pastor's Bible on Sunday from 8:00 to noon. And if you're not there, you're not hearing God." That is true hypocrisy because the same God who spoke to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob has not changed. God is the same forever. He was, he is, and he is to come. And the same way that he spoke to all the holy prophets is the same way he still speaks and communicates with people today because God does not change. He is alive. He wants to lead and guide us, not just from a dead book. It's not about just getting into church and getting into a Bible study. God is alive. If it were true that the Bible is the only way you hear from God, then when you would get to heaven, you wouldn't meet Jesus. You wouldn't meet your father in heaven. You would be standing before the Bible sitting on a throne, and you would have to hold an account before the Bible. And that is not true. It is the Lord Jesus who will judge you according to his words, and he will test you and see if you lived for his words or if you lived according to your flesh.
So, why do you go to church or not go to church? Is it for the same reason as the millennials? Have you stopped going because secretly you have sin in your life, and you just don't want to be condemned for sin? Or are you the sort of person that says, "Well, I don't go to church because there's hypocrisy there, but you also have hypocrisy in your life." Or genuinely, can you say that you are not part of a church because you want holiness and righteousness, and you want to be able to live for Jesus with all of your might? Are you lying to yourself about these things, or are you really working at being separate, not because you think you're holier than thou or better than other people, but genuinely because you have the love of Jesus in you, and you want to keep yourself unstained from the world? So, I hope this encourages someone. I hope this brings someone some light, that they can see the truth of Jesus and put their faith in him and have their eyes open to the kingdom of God. And so, “Lord Jesus, I pray for those, whether they are millennials or whatever age they are, whoever is listening to this message today, I pray that they may repent of their sins for real, that they would put their faith in you, and that they would sever themselves from everything and everyone who is ungodly; that they would not be like the ungodly, but that they would choose to do good before you and receive your Holy Spirit, receive the words of life and be purged from dead religion, be purged from sin and wickedness, that they would have their new white robes on, ready for the wedding supper of the lamb. We pray to eat your flesh and drink your blood and take communion with you all the time, Lord Jesus, because we know that only you have the words of life, and only you can lead us into everlasting life. I pray in your name, Lord Jesus. Amen.”